There’s a "women’s" magazine that features fashion and accessory recommendations every month for women by decade: what to wear in your 30’s, 40’s, up through your 70’s. I’m always drawn to the clothes that are supposed to be years or decades too young for me. How do we come by our preconceived ideas of how we should behave at any given age? You hear that boys now don’t grow up until their 30’s. And “old” women who dress like they’re 20, flirting with younger men. About women

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